„It was horrible what he was trying to do. He was trying to convince me to drink with him, but I realized that the drink disgusted me. For no reason, he was permanently struggling with me. He was insulting, lying and telling me I was fatter than ever. I know he did not realize the […]

When you become an aggressor‘s target you are tempted to ask yourself what can you do to help him/her change his/her behavior. Because this is the way that all those with victimization tendencies are reacting. Instead of thinking about what you can do to regain your happiness and life you deserve, you turn into a […]

We were born in sin. That’s what the Orthodox church has been claiming for generations. If I were to take seriously the enlightened church heads, no rain could ever wash away the misery with which they would cover me, feeling unworthy of love and respect. Hell, I would have the impression that I don’t even […]

I become an employee later than my former colleagues, wich, to a point, it seemed normal to me. Certainty, one of my dreams was’n to get a job and work for someone else. And why would it? While I still was a master student, I saw my colleagues being late or often missing classes as […]

The first step to get out of an abusive relationship is to recognize that you are in such a relationship. Only then can you get the support you need. And if physical abuse leaves more or less visible traces on the victim’s body, we can’t say the same about emotional abuse.